Dearest (((Bear))) Take the time you need, the time you so deserve. You've been through so much, and I truly sympathise, having had similar when my beloved, much missed mum was in hospital. Sadly, nobody in authority would listen to me, maybe even more sadly, I was right... She wouldn't have wanted me to pursue justice further... But the guilt is forever with me. You've given us all so much, and I know, will continue to do so, when you're ready. Sending love and positive thoughts for your dad, and most especially, to you, your husband and the glorious fur daemon Xx
So understand what you are going through. Living abroad when your parents are not well is difficult and something we won’t be aware of when making the decision to emigrate. Coming home to realise that the care for your parent has been say less than optimal is a shock and the realisation and guilt is horrible. (Speaking from experience).
Please don’t beat yourself up. You are doing all you can and that’s amazing.
Thinking of you and big hugs. Get yourself the best rest possible!!
Your health, sanity and relationships have to be given breathing space for your wellbeing Bear. Enjoy the time you give yourself. We’ll still be here when you choose to return.
I recognize your parents in my own, and, yes, it’s exhausting I never knew I could be exhausted. My suggestion would be first and foremost, take care of your husband and let him take care of you.
In times like these, reading what you write and how you try to make sense of it all is a bright spot in my life and something I look forward to. I echo that you are a voice of sanity in an increasingly mad world. Take care of yourself xx
I am already missing you! You are a voice of sanity in all the madness that is going on in the world. My best wishes to you and all around you and all those you love :-)
So sorry to hear of your Dad's health issues Bear, and the problems you are having with his care. It's hard enough when you are close by but doubly hard to deal with things at a distance. At least you have the experience to know what needs to be done. I hope things improve. Meanwhile have a good few days rest with your husband and keep your strength up. We will wait with patience for you to come roaring back!
My very best to you and Mr Bear, Bear. What a lot you have had to manage and deal with - my heart goes out to you. The few days break are the least you should take right now. Maybe consider when the next break will be before you finish this one.... look after yourself. x
I'm so glad if anything any of us have done has made this all a little more bearable. You bring such a lot into our lives and yes, it's time for a recharge. There's a song Paul Simon sings on Hearts and Bones which brings me great comfort and one of the verses is something like 'Last night my father came to me, and held me to his breast. He said, You've done all you can do, now go and get some rest.' Sent with love.
Have a great weekend, Bear :) Enjoy! And I'm honoured to contribute to the world of Bearly Politics :D
Enjoy a well deserved short break Bear! 🐻
Dearest (((Bear))) Take the time you need, the time you so deserve. You've been through so much, and I truly sympathise, having had similar when my beloved, much missed mum was in hospital. Sadly, nobody in authority would listen to me, maybe even more sadly, I was right... She wouldn't have wanted me to pursue justice further... But the guilt is forever with me. You've given us all so much, and I know, will continue to do so, when you're ready. Sending love and positive thoughts for your dad, and most especially, to you, your husband and the glorious fur daemon Xx
So understand what you are going through. Living abroad when your parents are not well is difficult and something we won’t be aware of when making the decision to emigrate. Coming home to realise that the care for your parent has been say less than optimal is a shock and the realisation and guilt is horrible. (Speaking from experience).
Please don’t beat yourself up. You are doing all you can and that’s amazing.
Thinking of you and big hugs. Get yourself the best rest possible!!
Your health, sanity and relationships have to be given breathing space for your wellbeing Bear. Enjoy the time you give yourself. We’ll still be here when you choose to return.
I recognize your parents in my own, and, yes, it’s exhausting I never knew I could be exhausted. My suggestion would be first and foremost, take care of your husband and let him take care of you.
*it’s exhausting in ways I never knew…
So much so that you start babbling.
In times like these, reading what you write and how you try to make sense of it all is a bright spot in my life and something I look forward to. I echo that you are a voice of sanity in an increasingly mad world. Take care of yourself xx
Hear hear
I am already missing you! You are a voice of sanity in all the madness that is going on in the world. My best wishes to you and all around you and all those you love :-)
So sorry to hear of your Dad's health issues Bear, and the problems you are having with his care. It's hard enough when you are close by but doubly hard to deal with things at a distance. At least you have the experience to know what needs to be done. I hope things improve. Meanwhile have a good few days rest with your husband and keep your strength up. We will wait with patience for you to come roaring back!
And thank you for still being able to get stuff out there while dealing with 10 crocks of manure. Take care of yourself.
My very best to you and Mr Bear, Bear. What a lot you have had to manage and deal with - my heart goes out to you. The few days break are the least you should take right now. Maybe consider when the next break will be before you finish this one.... look after yourself. x
My best to you and your husband Bear. Taking a well earned (even if short) break from the madness of UK politics will be therapeutic.
Bear, posts like yours put so much into perspective. Wishing you and your family all the very best.
Rest (and I do mean rest) assured, Bear, we'll all still be here gagging for it when you come back. All the best for your long weekend.
I'm so glad if anything any of us have done has made this all a little more bearable. You bring such a lot into our lives and yes, it's time for a recharge. There's a song Paul Simon sings on Hearts and Bones which brings me great comfort and one of the verses is something like 'Last night my father came to me, and held me to his breast. He said, You've done all you can do, now go and get some rest.' Sent with love.
So sorry to hear of all the pressure and truly hope that things improve for you. Do take care, enjoy your time with your husband.